Having just celebrated another turn around the sun, I find myself trying to understand what makes some folks tick.
And you are probably laughing right now because there is no one answer to that question. What I do know is that the folks I want to work with, laugh with and socialize with are those that possess certain traits including humility, curiosity and a willingness to focus on the work rather than the spotlight.
That realization applies just as much to leadership as it does to friendships. In leadership, especially in public life and community building, it can be tempting to believe that visibility, recognition or personal credit are the measures of success. From my experience the truth is far simpler: progress rarely comes from ego. It comes from humility, collaboration and a relentless focus on getting the work done.
The most meaningful accomplishments in our communities are rarely the result of one individual’s vision alone. They are built through partnerships, across business, government, education, labor and nonprofit sectors where success depends on listening as much as leading. When ego enters the equation, it narrows our perspective. When humility leads, it expands what is possible.
Humility does not mean a lack of confidence or conviction. Quite the opposite. It means being confident enough to invite other voices to the table, to acknowledge when someone else has the better idea, and to share credit widely. Leaders who operate this way create space for innovation and trust, which are two essential ingredients for solving complex challenges.
In regional economic development, frankly in all economic development, the work is inherently collaborative. No single organization, elected official or industry can move the needle alone. Whether we are advocating for infrastructure investment, supporting local businesses, or building a resilient workforce pipeline, progress happens when diverse stakeholders align around shared goals. That alignment requires patience, respect and an understanding that lasting outcomes matter more than individual recognition.
What often goes unseen by the public is the amount of relationship-building that underpins successful initiatives. Major projects, policy changes and community investments do not appear overnight. They are the result of countless conversations, careful negotiations and a willingness to find common ground among people with different perspectives and priorities. Leaders who approach this work with humility are more likely to earn trust, and trust is what keeps complex efforts moving forward.
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Communities benefit most from leaders who approach their roles with a service mindset. Instead of asking “Who gets the credit?” the better question is “What moves the community forward?” When the focus shifts to outcomes rather than optics, momentum follows. The best leaders understand that success is measured not by headlines or recognition, but by tangible improvements in the lives of the people they serve.
There is also a practical advantage to humility: It builds durability. Projects driven by ego often stall once the spotlight fades or leadership changes. Initiatives grounded in collaboration and shared ownership move forward because many people feel invested in their success. I look up and down the Peninsula and see so many projects that are a result of this shared vision.
Over time, those collaborative efforts create a culture where people are willing to step up, share ideas, and work through challenges together. When leaders model humility and respect, it sets a tone for the entire community. It encourages cooperation instead of competition and helps ensure that the focus stays where it belongs, on progress.
The truth is that the most effective leaders often operate behind the scenes by connecting people, resolving differences, and keeping initiatives moving even when the work is complex and slow. They understand that real leadership is less about being in front of the parade and more about making sure the parade actually moves.
At a time when public discourse often rewards the loudest voice in the room, it is worth remembering that steady, humble leadership still delivers the most lasting results. Our communities do not need more ego. They need more people willing to roll up their sleeves, listen carefully and focus on the hard work of building something better together.
In the end, leadership is about helping others succeed, strengthening the institutions that serve our communities and ensuring that the work continues long after any one person steps aside.
Rosanne Foust is the president and CEO of the San Mateo County Economic Development Association.

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Thanks for your guest perspective, Ms. Foust, but I’d recommend you first work your magic on our so-called Democrat leaders. Democrats don’t seem too interested in humility or doing the work in helping Californians thrive (except for public unions). When Democrat leaders of the state of California aren’t doing their part to support the causes and programs that help our region thrive, why should we? For instance, how does handing out $50 billion to criminals via EDD fraud help us thrive? How does wasting $billions on the train-to-nowhere help us thrive? How do Democrat leaders putting the welfare of criminals and terrorists over the American people help us thrive?
If anything, I’d recommend that folks who have the means move to a fiscally managed state that has shown they’re willing to support causes and programs to help their region thrive. As it is now, the only ones thriving are public union workers. If you can get Democrat leaders on board with steady, humble leadership that delivers lasting results for Californians, I’ll get on board. Perhaps these folks need to emulate President Trump, the person you didn’t name in your perspective, but who fits the bill an Making America Great Again.
So true. A wise elected leader once told me, "There are two kinds of leaders. One kind wants to be something. The other kind wants to do something." It's the latter kind that makes the most progress, and they do that by being inclusive.
Is that why Obama and Biden couldn't get much done? " It's the latter kind that makes the most progress, and they do that by being inclusive". They excluded first the Republicans and after that the MAGA supporters.
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